It’s a question that plagues me every so often there’s this interplay of the private and the public that I have variously ascribed to too much reality tv at a formative age and to my brain being neurodiverse (ADHD, Autism, CPTSD and Anxiety with Depression at last count). Theres a real sense in my mind … Read More
What do I want to end this on? That I feel more comfort within the LGBT community that anywhere else, occaisionally my life is thrown right up against very het community standards and assumptions and I just find them weird, and slightly cold. That I know that the LGBT community has it’s own problems but … Read More
What do I want to shout? Oh hell – BE GAY! DO CRIME!
(The brief for this entry is as follows: It can be a coming out letter or a letter regarding how you hate their homophobia or whatnot. You don’t have to send it.) Dear Dad, I’m bisexual, I have been since, well, I don’t know when but I’ve known it since I was thirteen or fourteen … Read More
It has to be Annie Sprinkle’s Insta which isn’t Quiltbag themed so much as it is sex positive and artistically focused. And also run by a queer girl. I will also give a shout out to uncle David’s insta. That is more explicitly queer community focused. Not got a lot else to say really other … Read More
I’ve always enjoyed – Why do gay guys have such good fashion sense? They really used their time in the closet. But I like my jokes to be a bit of a story; A man walks into a bar and orders three shots. “Long day?” the bartender asks. “Well… My oldest son just came out…” … Read More
The one I’ve taken back has to be Queer. I am lucky in that as a cis-woman i don’t really get the really bad slurs hurled at me, I never have. I’ve had, what, the odd ‘lesbo’ over the years. Dyke too. But I guess whereas Queer I’ve taken back almost by default I’ve deliberately … Read More
Stupid? Sort of, more, usually deployed in a dishonest/disingenuous way. The claim that ‘cis’ is a slur. People who are talking about trans people being themselves are promoting an ideological agenda are usually themselves wrapped up in their own ideology. The point is, the more we have words for something the better we can discuss … Read More
Ok this one I thought I was going to pick a universal image and get political or angry. I really don’t want to though, the current mess regarding trans guidance to schools in the UK is really upsetting me. So one that makes me cry then; This is one of the Uncle Davids. From the … Read More
Probably I’m supposed to pick something universal but this picture of Lancaster Pride makes me incredibly happy. It’s me the year that I customised some LURPS shirts to be gay. Also pictured Precious Stone, No Nickname and Essex Lass. I was so happy that Lancaster finally had a Pride and could not stop smiling. I … Read More
