1. Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider having sex with? Yes, considering I am sleeping with/have slept with some of them! 2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night? Yes please. 3. What side of the bed do you sleep on? Right, left, left, left. 4. Pork, beef, or chicken? … Read More

I know when I’m in a bad mood, I get horribly judgemental and start picking apart other people. It’s something I really don’t like about myself so I intend to stop doing it, easier said than done of course but the intention is there. I suspect that if I really let myself go I could … Read More

[W] the dark [ ] staying single forever [W] being a parent [ ] giving birth [ ] being myself in front of others [ ] open spaces [W] closed spaces [ ] heights [W] dogs [ ] birds [ ] fish [X] spiders (And some insects) [ ] flowers or other plants Total so … Read More

So, I had a party this weekend. It was a pretty good one. In that I enjoyed myself, I got to see my sister and I made Mexican food for loads of people, which I haven

There were tequila shots. It was too windy for a barbeque so we had meat cooked under the grill instead. There were tequila shots. There were tortillas. There was a dirty story with actions. There was an appreciation of three types of absinthe. There was a game of I have never… now I haven’t played … Read More

It was a good (if odd) Litha ritual. I chose to honour the dead, me and Mother-in-Law went up to watch the sunset along the coast, watch the sun plunge his way into the see and send a thick shaft of golden light over the beach. I lit incense around six graves (which apparently looked … Read More

So, on the one hand I’ve lost my only working vibrator and on the other the Jellicle Cat is more than making up for this loss. On the one hand I had horrible, horrible dreams last night about every single lover I’ve ever had in only slightly out of chronological order and on the other … Read More

So, I love this job. I like the people I work with and I like the feel of the place. I also like the fact that I spend most of my afternoons writing. My boss just had a word with me. See, at the moment the job is temporary but they’re thinking that they’ll make … Read More

So…meditation and trance states. I have a certain amount of experience with the latter and a little with the former. Or do I? The problem is really the term ‘trance state’ and also the percieved intention behind ‘meditation’, yes I know I’m over-using the rabbit ears, bear with me do. Eastern and Western ways of … Read More

Coco de Mer have a new website. One day I will have the money to fit my bedroom out in boudoirish stuff from there. Shrine to the beautiful glories of sex, or something.